Friday, July 24, 2015

The Personal Hope That Led This YOUNG Girl To Sponsor A Child

Nine years ago I stumbled upon many young teen girls living at the TN Baptist Children's Home. I felt led to lead a bible study with them twice per month. During these bible studies I learned so much about these young girls and their hard lives that led them to live in a children's home. More than anything else, they all longed for the love of a family. I tried my best to remind them of the love of God in their lives during such a hard road they were all walking. Although these girls lived in a children's home, which is a modern day orphanage, I could clearly see that God had pulled them from their circumstances and struggles in life and placed them there because He had called them to greatness. The constant struggle as their bible study leader was to remind them of this greatness when they felt so alone. 

I recently received a message from one of the girls I taught so long ago. She is now in her young twenties. 

Her road has not been an easy one. I remember walking her through some very difficult times in her teens and then I met with her after she graduated when she was searching for direction and meaning in her life. Her most recent message was very unexpected and simply just brought me to tears. 

Her name popped up in my facebook with a simple message stating...

"I want to sponsor a child!!!!" 

I responded and said, "That is so awesome! The sponsorships are $52.50 per month. Are you sure you are able to commit to that? What has made you want to sponsor a child?"

This is her response that I wanted to share. 

It has to do with my past and all the hopes and dreams I had of being adopted, even though I was unadoptable. I had all of these unrealistic expectations from people & relationships. I literally made myself miserable with the all-consuming desire I had of finding a forever family. I was very bitter and resentful towards my family & others. It has taken me a long time to come to terms that I would never have that family I pictured and that I could either accept that or continue my pity party. Well I decided to accept my life for all that it is....and its wonderful!! God has blessed me beyond measure and has placed so many Godly men and women in my life!! I know there is a reason I grew up where I did and I know God is going to use that!!! I have so much love for children waiting to be adopted, whether that is in the foster system here in the states or around the world waiting to be adopted or cared for!! I know what it's like to wait...even if you know that dream will never come true, we all hold on to hope!! I've prayfully considered this and this is what God is calling me to do right now!!! I can definitely commit to 1 year of $52.50 a month!! 

When she saw the little girl's picture she responded with this...

I want to sponsor her!!! Immediately when I saw her picture a flood of emotion washed over me. She is so beautiful & I just hope she knows how precious she is, and God sees her every want, need, & desire!!!

Wow! I believe there are so many lessons in this for all of us! With her permission I have shared her words. This is not just about sponsorship. Yes, if this young girl can sponsor a child and want to make a difference with what little she has, then why are there so many excuses not to. 

But her words ring true of so much more than that. She is a picture of God's love, forgiveness, mercy and grace! She was an older child that we see so often get lost and forgotten about in the system and lost in this world trying to discover who they are. Her words give us a glimpse into the heart of an older child living in this country without a family. But in the midst of her own struggles she grabbed onto hope and God's unending love for her and she has found purpose for her own pain and struggles. Oh, how it takes most of us a lifetime to find these truths and this hope and assurance of God's love and purpose in our lives! 

Thank you, Chante, for reminding all of us that God works ALL THINGS together for good for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose. Thank you for reminding us of the simple act of accepting where we are in life even when it is not what we dreamed it would be. 

And THANK YOU for being an Ordinary Hero to little Roza! This little girl lives on the bare minimum in Ethiopia as her HIV-positive mother struggles to care for her. Now her life is about to change! Through your own waiting in life you learned many valuable lessons. Thank you for allowing this little girl to WAIT NO MORE. 

She doesn't know how lucky she is to have such an amazing sponsor that loves her from across the ocean! I can't wait for you to travel with us and meet her one day! 

For more information on our sponsorship program, please contact kblevins@ordinaryhero.org

Monday, June 29, 2015

Ordinary.the Documentary

Imagine taking your entire family across the ocean to a third world country for one month. Imagine what it would be like for your adopted child from that country to meet his birth family for the first time and hear the gripping account of "why" he was put into an orphanage. Imagine taking your family into the depths of so much poverty starvation, and medical needs that it changes them forever...

This ORDINARY family invites you to come see their incredible journey. Share their experiences and see first hand how they are changing the lives of ONE person at a time.


video

Ordinary. the Documentary


If you are in the Nashville, TN area please joing us for a special screening
Thursday August 20th, 2015. 7:00pm at The Franklin Theatre. 
Get your tickets here:






Wednesday, April 15, 2015

Visiting Miracles

I traveled far into the countryside of Ethiopia to visit a new partner ministry that rescues abandoned babies. I looked at each of their little faces with their own unique personalities already, and saw God's mercy and grace in their eyes looking back at me. I knew that they shouldn't even be alive. I fed a two week old baby girl that was so small she couldn't figure out how to take a bottle. As she kept refusing the bottle and turning into my chest, the mother in me wanted to scoop her up and give her the comfort and security of a nursing mother that she deserved and longed for. Instead, her reality is that she was found by a farmer, laying abandoned in a field...and she has no mother. Another baby with a personality as bright as the sun was found in a toilet. And another was found thrown over the fence of a High School, bloodied and bruised from the fall. These children are miracles. They are survivors and they don't even realize it yet. These children are a drop in the ocean of orphans in Ethiopia. But to God, each life matters. Each one has a destiny. A future. A hope. I look at my children from Ethiopia in my own home. They were drops in the ocean as well. But, my God, how they will change the world! They have already changed mine.

Tuesday, April 14, 2015

One Night in an Orphanage

I spent the night in an orphanage. I slept in a bottom bunk bed in a room filled with girls and three bunk beds lining the walls, some with two girls per bunk. 10 girls lined the floor so that we could sit up and talk through the night. I asked them what their dreams are for their future. EVERY SINGLE one of them had a dream! And EVERY SINGLE one of them tied that dream into helping others in their future. Oh my, how we can all learn from these precious girls! You can see we talked until they couldn't hold their eyes open anymore. 

I experienced one night in an orphanage that some of these girls have lived in almost their entire lives. The sounds in the night in a black room filled with children breathing and mumbling in their sleep, the early dawn of a rooster crow and children in other rooms starting to stir and talk, music starting to play in another room, the smell of the bathroom filling the room each time the door is opened because they don't have running water. I woke to a wall right beside me with a picture taped to it of a sponsor family that gives a young girl hope each morning she opens her eyes because she knows someone in the world cares for her. I watched them each dig through their cubby of clothes while pulling things from under the bed to dress themselves. They fixed each other's hair and ate bread and tea for breakfast. We then all walked almost two miles to church where I watched them all worship God and sing from the purest hearts I've ever seen....thanking Him for all their blessings. There are no words. These girls teach me how to love. James 1:27 

Friday, April 10, 2015

April Team in Ethiopia - Part 2

The team had an incredible day in Korah meeting their sponsored kids, visiting families, praying, and offering love and support.













Witnessed the lives changed through Lila products and had bible study with the kids in Bira's feeding program.






A few of us traveled toward Hawassa to visit the babies in our new partnership, Talita orphanage. Thanks to all of you who have sponsored these sweet children. This orphanage also supports HIV stricken families in their community. They are a tremendous blessing and need more support if you are interested. Please contact us.












This couple and their story really touched my heart! In their youth his family didn't accept her because she was from a different tribe. They ran away to be together to this village where they have lived for over fifty years and have children and grandchildren of their own. BUT GET THIS....she has now gone completely blind and he is now deaf! One never leaves the side of the other. She is his ears and he is her eyes. They are beautiful together in the way they care for one another. Her hand always reaches for him and he always guides her as she listens for him. They live down a long path in a little mud shack.



Thursday, April 9, 2015

OH Ethiopia Trip - April Team

Our April Team headed to Ethiopia on April 7th!



I was so glad to see my sweet girls waiting on me at the airport for me when I arrived!


The team arrived in Ethiopia and had a full first day of loving on little ones in an orphanage, hearing stories from street children and meeting some of their own sponsored kids. We visited Kidane Mehiret orphanage where the team was greeted by big smiles and got to show God's love to some sweet little ones.












Matt met his sponsored son for the first time! 




Space is still available on summer trips! Join us on a life changing adventure this summer.

Friday, March 13, 2015

The End Is Just The Beginning - The Story Of Mek

The end is just the beginning. I really believe this to be true in many ways, but for now I am talking about our sponsored child, Mek on Entoto Mountain. If you read my previous post about Meki (a few months back), you will remember that God had answered a huge prayer of mine (and many others) for Mek to be able to come to America for an open heart surgery that would save her life. He was so faithful in all of those details so I knew that once she arrived he would continue to rain down blessings over her. I'm ready now to share with you all "the rest of the story."

On January 4th at 10:30 PM, Mek boarded her first flight ever in order to come to the United States of America for heart surgery. She was so excited...actually giddy! The plane was almost more than she could take between the meals, drinks, and TVs on the back of each seat. It was so fun watching her and the excitement was contagious to all of those around her.




Once in America, she settled in at my home with my family for 3 weeks while waiting for her surgery date to arrive. During this time, she experienced many things including snow, riding a bike, a trampoline, the TN Aquarium, Chuck E Cheese, gymnastics class, playing instruments, and being read to and tucked in every single night in a warm and cozy bed. She learned what it was like having 2 siblings close in age and a dog in the home (I will just say that our 10 year old cocker spaniel has grown on Mek...kind of). She quickly got accustomed to opening the pantry and food being there without doubt. She learned to like American food and we experienced our fair share of Ethiopian meals as well. The time she was here before surgery was glorious, hard at times, rewarding, and overall just something that I can hardly find the words to describe.


"sleepover party"

1. relaxing in the swing
2. sister-sister
3. learning to eat from the ice cream carton
4. first trip to Chuck E Cheese - don't knock the Santa hat 
I didn't have the heart to tell her no...


1. Japanese steakhouse (her fave "American" food)
2. TN Aquarium
3. First snow
4. Sleepover



On January 24th, we made our way to Indianapolis for her impending surgery on the 29th. We left at 5:00 AM and only stopped once. We were on a mission; you see, she was meeting her official sponsor for the first time ever once we arrived in Indianapolis. Her sponsor, Jessica flew up from Charleston, SC to spend the first week with Meki as she underwent her pre-op testing and surgery. As fate would have it though, surgery was postponed to the following week so the two of them got to spend lots of quality time together outside of the hospital! They toured around, made new friends through the Gift of Life program who sponsored her surgery, and watched a lot of High School Musical!



1. Gorgeous drive on the way to Indianapolis...
but someone named Mek wouldn't know...she fell back asleep!
2.  In front of the wall at hearts at the Ronald McDonald house
3. At the hospital ready for her pre-op testing 

Meki with her sponsor!


With surgery postponed...
1. she was treated to a trip to the Indianapolis Children's Museum
2. then to the rhythm museum
3. Then her sponsor took her to Dr. Kinnaman's (Gift of Life coordinator) 
home for some play time. Haha!
4. and finally she had time to close out a 
Rotary Meeting in Indy... (the Rotarian Club here partners
 with Gift of Life to fund the surgeries)


On February 1st though, Jessica had to say goodbye and I returned for the week. Two days later, at 5:30 AM, we ventured to the hospital with 2 suitcases prepared to stay for a week. Two hours later, I was giving Meki a hug, praying over her, and starting the long wait for her surgery to be done. Nothing could have prepared me for what the surgeon repaired once he opened her chest though. The two holes in her heart (the ASD and VSD) were HUGE! Even he was surprised at their actual size and how little residual damage she had to her vessels given their size.


waiting for her turn to be taken back to the OR

1. prayers for God's protection over her and his wisdom and guiding hand over the surgeon
2. These were the size of the holes in her heart. Actually, these are the
 patches that are in her heart now...cut to the exact size of the holes. 




After 4 hours, Mek was being weaned off of bypass and the surgery was complete! She now had the perfect physical heart to match her loving spiritual heart. God had healed her by using a wonderful surgeon and his team! Several hours after this, I was able to finally see "my baby." She was in the cardiac ICU hooked up to arterial lines, two monitors, blood pressure regulating medication, IV fluids, and a light sedative. She had oxygen on and a chest tube in. She had an IV in each hand and a central line in her neck. Despite all of that, she looked like a little angel lying on that bed...and she sounded heavenly when she opened her eyes, saw me, and said "hi mommy."




I leaned in to tell her that her surgery was finished and her heart was all fixed. I told her that I was so proud of her and how brave she was. I let her know that I loved her to the moon and back and that her only job now was to rest. She drifted back into sleep and rested well that evening.


The next several days were a blur. She was progressing so well that she was moved out of the ICU 24 hours after surgery and was discharged just 4 days after having her chest and heart cut into! She left the hospital only on Tylenol and Advil and didn't really need it after 2 days. As a matter of fact, that little cutie danced upon arriving back at the Ronald McDonald House! There is a psalm says "let us praise His name in dance"...and she did.




After spending a week in the city with a family friend of her sponsor, she returned to my home and stayed another 3 weeks. During this last bit of time we have had with her, she and I have been having talks about "her story." Everyone has a story to tell and I have told her that God has given her a story that brings great glory to His name. We have talked about how He has given her a responsibility to share her story and tell about how she once was sick, but God healed her for her good and His glory. I've told her that her story will show people the love of God and how much He pursues us and wants us to know and love Him. I wasn't sure it was sinking in, but then yesterday, she brought me a piece of paper with a lot of Amharic writing on it. She said "mommy, I've been working on my story. Can I read it to you"? It was perfect! She is ready to share her story with anyone who will listen... allow me to tell you what she said it says:

"Hello. My name is Mekdelawit Girma. I am from Entoto Mountain, Ethiopia. I am 11 years old. My heart was very very sick and I could not do anything like run or play soccer with my friends. Then I met my mommy,Kelly Blevins, and she found out my heart was sick with two holes and helped me come to America to get it fixed. I had big surgery and then got better. I thank my God, mommy Kelly, Jessica, Dr. Turrentine, Stephanie, and everyone. I am so happy now to go home and jump rope and play. I will tell everyone my story. That God fixed my heart."
Be still my own heart! What a precious little girl who took the time to write her story. She was so proud of herself and I beamed with joy.

Know that your prayers, the ones you spoke relentlessly for our precious Meki, were answered and that God WILL receive all the glory and praise for it!

Goodbyes were spoken this morning as I accompanied her to her flight back to Ethiopia. We parted ways with many tears and much sadness as she boarded the plane and I watched her depart. Our home is going back to a family of 4 instead of 5. We will miss the giggling, the incessant movie watching with her, even - dare I say - Chuck E Cheese and watching her dance with that overgrown rat.

The end has come for her in so many ways. The end of fatigue, the end of sickness, the end of breathing problems. However, this has allowed her a brand new beginning with life filled with hope, joy, and great health. I hope you will pray for her to always boldly share her story and encourage others in their own trials.

CHANGE THE WORLD FOR ONE...MEK IS ONE!

Friday, March 6, 2015

New Partnership In Ethiopia: Talita Rise Up

As most of you know, our mission is to inspire and empower ordinary people to make an extraordinary difference in the life of a child in need. We do this through advocating for and partnering with different Christ-centered ministries both locally and abroad. 

We aim at partnering with ministries who strive to take care of their own communities passionately and sustainably, with a strong vision in their hearts. 

With that being said… We are VERY excited to announce our newest partnership in Ethiopia:
Talita Rise Up

Talita Rise Up was started by an Ethiopian mother and son who initially had a burning passion to support the destitute girls of Ethiopia. They began pursuing this passion by building a ministry that supported the young girls of Yirgalem, a town in Southern Ethiopia located about six hours from Addis. This was, and still is, the first ministry of any kind in the area. But after spending time in the small, rural town they realized that many of the town’s people were abandoning their babies. These babies were being left in toilets, trash cans, and even forests where they would be found by wild animals. Knowing something had to be done, Atkilt and Abenezer devoted themselves full-time to the opening of an orphanage. Once opened, the police began bringing abandoned babies one by one, each with a heartbreaking story. As they were handed over nameless and unwanted, they were given powerful names with meanings by the orphanage staff such as Bloom, Increase In God, Miracle, as well as names from the Bible. They then began the long and tedious process of being able to officially place the babies up for adoption to find their forever families. With limited funding they were able to successfully place one newborn baby who is now living with their forever family in the US. Shortly after, however, Ethiopia decided to close all adoptions in Southern Ethiopia, which had a huge negative impact on their ministry. With no adoptions taking place and all adoption agencies moving out of the area, this ministry was left with no money and a home full of children, majority of the children being babies under one year old. Since then they have leaned in on God and done their best by asking friends and relatives for funding to continue caring for the amazing children that call the Talita Rise Up Care Center their home. We, as a staff, have come to know and love Atkilt and Abenezer. Ordinary Hero is thrilled to come alongside these leaders to support their vision and connect them to you.

Babies at the Center
Talita Rise Up Care Center
Founder, Abenezer, and a boy from the community

What will the partnership entail?

There are currently two teenage girls, one boy, one toddler, and eleven babies living at their Center. Their immediate needs are sponsors for the children living at the center, as well as sponsors for the staff members so that the Care Center can properly support the children. Once funding is sustained at the Care Center, we will begin to advocate for the families in the community, most of which are living in extreme poverty. 

In addition to advocation we will be taking our teams out of Addis for 1-2 days of serving in Yirgalem beginning in April, and will begin to watch the miracles unfold! Get excited team members!

How Can You Help?

Sponsor A Child: 
We will start by advocating for Degitu. Degitu is 17 years old, in Grade 10 and is preparing for the national exam. When Degitu was earlier in her teen years, she was taken captive and sexually assaulted. Once she heard about the center, she escaped and traveled a long way from her birthplace to find refuge at the center. She has been living there since 2012. $50/month will help cover her basic needs while living at the shelter. To sponsor Degitu, email kblevins@ordinaryhero.org.


Sponsor A Nanny: 
Our nannies are who keep the babies growing and loved! Even through financial hardships they have proven that they are committed to the children of Talita Rise Up. Help us support their monthly salary with a sponsorship of $50/month. To sponsor a nanny, email kblevins@ordinaryhero.org.

Additional Needs: 
If you would like to meet some of the additional Care Center needs, you may make a one-time donation by clicking here, which goes towards any of the supplies below. Simply include Talita Rise Up and your chosen item in the Message section. If the need has already been met by the time you give, we will put your donation towards another need listed below:

- Enjera Maker… $125
- Stove... $50
- Crib Mattress… $50
- Teenage Mattresses (2)… $60
- Nanny Mattresses (2)… $60
- Baby Formula (20)… $10/can

Continue to watch our Facebook and Instagram over the next week for more information about this ministry and continued sponsorship opportunities. Don't forget to advocate by sharing. Thank you for your support and love! 


Any additional questions can be directed toward our sponsorship coordinator, kblevins@ordinaryhero.org.

Thursday, February 12, 2015

New Merch In The Ordinary Hero Store



Be sure to check out the new merch in the OH Store! Remember that Fundraising Affiliates receive 40% of every item sold and credited to their name. We welcome you to fundraise with us or support an adoption or trip today by purchasing through the OH Store! www.ordinaryherostore.org 

This week is grant giveaway week!
Extra $1000 to top seller and $500 to second top seller(min $500 orders) now through Sunday! Sign up to fundraise with us to support your mission trip, adoption, nonprofit or 501c3 organization.